Parenting is a full-time job, and until maybe 10 years ago parents were expected to do it all. Provide private tuition to every question under the sun, be the chauffeur for school runs and play dates, the psychologist for serious upsets and the nurse for colds and everything else. This doesn’t even take into account the full-time jobs that parents go to every day, which allow them to pay for everything that the child needs.
Today, however, things are very different, at least in the educational arena. There are so many options to educate your child and prepare them to achieve their maximum potential. A few of these options are home tutoring and online tutoring, which can guide your child from where they are presently towards achieving success in any area.
Tutoring is the primary one on one flexible solution. Tutors are trained to work with preschool and kindergarten learners, primary school and middle school, secondary school, college and university students and also adults. It doesn’t matter if your child attends a private high school or a public school, as often tuition is done after school during the school year, and at the weekends or on the holidays where the tutor could arrange a more intensive programme.
Tutors can help with an academic curriculum such as maths, physics, chemistry geography, science etc. You could learn a foreign language, like the French language and you could hire a native French tutor to teach you French online or if English is your second language you could employ a qualified ESL English tutor. You can decide to study any curriculum or syllabus. If you have to do some test prep, you can hire a tutor to help with GCSE exams or to help you find out if you are eligible for a scholarship and successfully apply for the award.
Each tutor will have their own speciality. Photo Source: Unsplash
Tutors can be hired to help with any number of things, such as if your child is not taught by the mainstream school education system but enrolled in a homeschooling programme or an independent school, has learning difficulties, is gifted in a particular area or has an extracurricular interest. But one of the really great reasons to use a tutor is if your child is struggling in school.
Sometimes it can be difficult to realise that your child is struggling. It is important to recognise that they won’t always put their hand up and say directly “I need help”. But if you notice slipping grades, lack of engagement or behavioural issues it might be time to go to talk to your child’s school teacher. The sooner you are able to help a struggling child, the easier it will be for them to start improving and get back on track.
Private tuition whether it is an online tutor or a 1 to 1 home tutor, can be a powerful tool for supporting and guiding your child towards achieving their maximum potential. The benefits of home tuition are vast, and although the tuition costs can sometimes be expensive, the results speak for themselves.
With overfilled schools, rising school tuition and parents being either too busy or exhausted at the end of a long day. Private tutoring fills a vital gap by giving the child the one on one supplemental instruction that they need to circumnavigate educational challenges and find their way to academic success.
The most important things for parents to know is that they have provided their child with all of the tools for success. Photo Source: Unsplash
Before you go on the hunt for a private tutor, you should be aware of what you want the tuition for and what outcomes you are hoping to achieve. This is really important to be clear about before looking for a private tutor as each tutor will have their speciality, and not all tutors will be able to work across all subjects generally. Once you are clear about what kind of help you need, You can begin to start the search to find your personal tutor.
Before checking if the tutor can fulfil your wishes it is always important to do some due diligence checks. First, you should check that the tutor has a clear Criminal Records Bureau check (CRB). Next check their qualifications, make sure that they are suitable for the position and lastly check their experience asking for references where appropriate. If you decide to use one of the larger tutoring services, you may find that this is done for you but it always worth checking.
There are thousands of tutors available on and offline, and your perfect tutor is out there somewhere. If you would like to know where to start. You can ask a school teacher at your child’s school, often school teachers choose to do tutoring jobs part time.
You can also speak to fellow parents and ask if they have any recommendations, you can also contact your local council or homeschooling associations. To find out if they have any suggestions and of course the internet has a wealth of information for you which will help you to get started.
Once you have selected the right private tutor, it will be essential to communicate with them about what you have in mind for your child’s tutoring program. Perhaps your child will need to prepare for an entrance exam, GCSEs or need to become proficient in a particular topic to keep up with the class. Whatever your requirements are once these are discussed with the tutor, they should work to create a personalised program that will help you to achieve these outcomes.
To ensure that you are on track it is essential to keep in touch with the tutor and ask for updates on how things are going. You can also speak to your child to see if they have improved and of course, informal testing will also show your child’s progress. After evaluating the progress discuss with the tutor if any adjustment should be made to the program.
If you want to get the most out of your personal tuition you need to ensure that you understand the responsibility of the tutor. While the tutor can guide you in understanding a new subject, give you the tools to perform at your best on any topic and teach you social skills that support and enhance your learning. A tutor can not do the work for you.
At the heart of successful private tuition is a dedicated, focused and hardworking student. If you want to make the most of your private tutor try to implement some of the following tips.
When your private tutor has arranged your sessions, engaged students should be prepared to attend and be dedicated to having perfect attendance. Always arrive on time for class, ready to make the most of the lesson. Notebooks and pens should be prepared as should any other tools you need to have a successful experience. You should turn off any distraction devices, e.g. your mobile phone.
While in your session with the tutor, be enthusiastic about notes taking, notes are the equivalent of a selfie for your mind. When you have understood something write it down, also note down any interesting things that you notice. Observing interesting patterns or links to things that you know already will really help you to retain the information from the session. Once the meeting is over, your primary assignment will be to engage in a short but serious revision session where you review your notes, as this will help you to remember more.
Being hard on yourself, for not understanding it right away isn’t going to help you to learn. Let go of any expectations that things will change overnight. Instead, ignore what you are getting wrong and focus sharply on what the tutor is teaching you, they are there to guide you. Getting out of your own head can help you to relax and be more receptive to the information at hand.
Speak to your tutor honestly at the end of each session to let them know how it went. If you would like to revisit something that you have studied be clear about it and share that with them. Tutors can not read your mind and although they take care to ensure you understand if you are not following or understanding it our job to tell the tutor then it is the tutor’s job to slow down and go back over it for you until it is clear.
I can be hard to give up your free time when you would prefer to be having fun. To sit down and study a topic that you are struggling with but short but regular sessions can make a massive difference to your ability to do well in a subject. Resist any urge you have to give up and speak to your tutor about how you are feeling.
Children gain valuable social skills such as confidence. Photo Source: Unsplash
The most important thing for parents to know is that they have provided their child with all of the tools, not only to do well but achieve their maximum potential. Hiring a tutor for private education is one of the tools that can ensure your child not only keeps up with the class but excels in the class. Be sure to support your tutor in every way you can such as helping to set goals, being flexible, being honest and respecting their schedule.
Tutoring gives your child the chance to experience being a success, and It is an experience that will teach your child key skills that they can apply to all parts of their lives, helping them not only succeed at school but also in life. Once they have learnt how to be successful, confident and hardworking. Doors will naturally open for them, allowing them to achieve their dreams and become useful, happy, satisfied members of society.